Who am I? Have you ever asked yourself that question? I hope I’m not the only one. I know who I am honestly, but these last few days have prompted me to have another Reality Check. I had a self-love conversation with myself, and the first question was, “What if…..?”. That question triggered thoughts of inadequacy and disappointment, but I got myself together and re-aligned the conversation. Now please don’t think that I was coming down on myself with this reality check, because I wasn’t. I used this moment to fuel me for moving forward.
I have dealt with the realities of trauma, hardship, and vision; mine and those close to me, and I recognize that I have done much, but I have so much more to do. You see, I’m one of those people who pours into others daily, longing for a reciprocated exchange. I’m so used to never saying no. – but that’s got to change. Knowing who I am, requires that I maximize my worth and stop sliding to the background. I am a woman of purpose, and I’m making an impact – my reality check spoke loudly that it’s time for change.
My marriage, my family, my ministry, and my business are an expression of my truth – and my truth requires an upgrade. Family, I don’t know what your reality is presenting right now, but I’d like to encourage you to check yourself. Make sure that you’re consistently adding value to your life, that your priorities are in check and your vision is clear. We often get weighted down by the complacency of life, but that needs to change. You are powerful! You are impactful! You are worthy! Today, be brave enough to take that reality check and govern yourself accordingly.